Me displaying my body however I want is just that. It’s mine, it’s my decision, and I own that. It’s one of the ways I choose to celebrate my femininity and sexuality *gasp* on my own terms. Women are objectified all the time and no one seems to mind, but the second she’s in charge …

I know, I know, a man writing a blog on a feminist page? What’s this world coming to, right? Lol. But in all seriousness, here at TSF we’re all inclusive. And gentlemen this one is for you. Now I’m gonna need you all to gather round real close. Come on, bring it in brochachos; it’s …

I’ve heard this countless times over the years. I’ve also heard things like “What did you expect?” for trivial shit like having a profile pic I like. No cleavage or anything, not that that matters (because it fucking doesn’t), just a regular profile picture where I felt pretty. I’m going to call this for what …

Ah yes, dating is tough. It doesn’t matter if you’re thin, fat, tall or short. Online or IRL, people don’t always handle rejection well. I always try to be polite when refusing someone’s attention, polite but clear. Inevitably, my simple, “Thanks but I’m not interested in dating you,” has made more than a few men …

Stop with the slut shaming. Really, I mean it! It’s 2017 and we as women still have to be concerned with labels like slut and whore? Fucking hell. It astonishes me that we are still so puritanical as a society when it comes to expressing sexuality. First of all, I’m a slut not a whore. …

Jesus Christ, dudes. Settle the fuck down. It’s only a post or a link or a meme, or whatever. I have had guys go off on me for the weirdest shit, too. Maybe they’re on their period or something, I dunno. I definitely can’t talk to or reason with them when they are being so …

I apologize incessantly. All. The. Time. I do it without even realizing it, and then I’ll apologize for that. My husband once asked me, “Why are you sorry?” I don’t remember what I had said sorry for, but I just looked at him stunned. I had no fucking idea. I have since put some thought …

I get asked this a lot. I mean really a lot. And it’s not just me, not by a long shot. I hear other women being asked the same thing constantly. Every time there’s a creepy comment or any kind of harassment, without fail one of the first reactions is “Where do you find these …

Men don’t send unsolicited dick pics as a come on. That might be the guise they use, kind of “Hey Baby, you like what you see?” And no. Just no. Make that fuck no. I have yet to see an impressive dick pic. I’m talking shitty lighting, unflattering angles, dirty fucking room. Some assholes don’t …

Enough with living in the darkness! Bring this shit into the light. Online sexual harassment and abuse in all its forms is a disease. It breeds in the dark. It grows and festers. For years I would delete and block and delete and block, but for the most part I never said a word. To …